I had an acquaintance who would dedicate an entire room within her home for clothes. This was remarkable only in that the room was a warehouse of dreams; a modest closet in her small bedroom stored the clothes she actually wore. The warehouse room boasted display racks, portable closets and even a wall sized shoe rack. This was the grace area for the outfits she would wear, the person she would become, once Real Life Began.
The problem with waiting for life to begin is that we fool ourselves into believing this state of mind is aspiration. It isn’t. It is a refusal to be present for ourselves and ultimately, our children. When we aspire to a higher moral code or spiritual standard, when we actively labor toward a deeper and more productive life, as we embrace each day as a possibility for learning, it is then that we aspire. Aspiration is an active state.
Schools dig deep into the soil of aspiration, classrooms filled with teachers and students who toil at the fine art of stretching beyond one’s edges. Parents and community need to model this for their children, we must embrace the now of life. Painful can transcend into worthwhile, compassion illustrates humanity and when joy arrives, it’s a sharing occasion.
This new year, let Real Life be that vital, encompassing moment called Now.